A true story
Recently, a friend shared with me a frustrating and upsetting experience. Her husband, who lives with memory loss, also has significant hearing loss. She took him to a local memory clinic at the hospital, hoping for some helpful support and assessment.

But things didn’t go as planned.
The person who conducted the assessment spoke with a very strong accent. This, combined with the setting and the clinical language, made it difficult for her husband to follow what was being said. When the assessor asked him straightforward questions — such as “Where did you go to school?” — he didn’t answer. Not because he didn’t remember, but because he simply couldn’t hear the question clearly.
In her frustration, his wife started answering for him. But by then, the moment had passed. They left the clinic early, disheartened and deflated.
It struck me how easily this kind of misunderstanding can happen — and how damaging it can be.
Hearing Loss and Memory Loss: A Common Overlap
Many people who are referred for memory assessments are older. And many older people also experience hearing loss — whether diagnosed or undiagnosed. In fact, hearing loss is one of the most common long-term health conditions in people over 70.
But when a person with hearing loss struggles to answer questions, it’s easy for others to assume that the issue is memory-related. That can lead to inaccurate assessments, unnecessary worry, and people being labelled in ways that don’t reflect their actual abilities.

What Could Have Helped?
We thought long and hard about what might have helped in this situation — and came up with a few ideas. They’re not perfect, but they might help others facing a similar challenge:
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Mentioning the hearing loss clearly at the start of the appointment.
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Politely asking for repetition or written questions if speech isn’t clear.
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Making sure hearing aids are on and working, or using assistive devices.
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Gently requesting to see a different staff member if communication is too difficult.
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Encouraging clinics to consider including basic hearing checks as part of the assessment process.
But we know every situation is different.
Your Experience of hearing loss and memory loss

Have you had a similar experience — at a memory clinic, hospital, GP surgery or elsewhere? How did you cope? What do you wish had been done differently?
We’d love to hear your story and any tips you can share. The more we learn from each other, the more we can help others avoid the same frustrations — and make sure people with both memory and hearing difficulties get the respect and support they deserve.
Because hearing well is a vital part of being understood.
Further Reading : The Alzheimer’s Society (a British Charity) have produced an interesting read about the connection between hearing loss and dementia
Hearing Ambassadors also have more information on our website about how you can help your friends and family